Online romance scams are sweeping across Africa, leaving a trail of broken hearts and empty bank accounts. Fraudsters, often masquerading as charming potential partners, are exploiting dating apps, social media platforms, and messaging services to deceive unsuspecting victims.
Authorities say these scams are not only growing in number but also in sophistication. Many perpetrators spend weeks cultivating trust before fabricating emergencies, such as medical bills or travel costs, that tug at the victim’s emotions and wallets.
The South African Police Service (SAPS) has issued warnings after a surge in reported cases, urging the public to remain vigilant when forming online relationships. Victims often end up financially devastated, but the psychological damage of betrayal can linger even longer.
HOW THE SCAMS WORK
These fraudsters often spend weeks or even months building trust with their targets before fabricating emergencies to request money. Victims are commonly persuaded to fund fake medical treatments, travel costs, or investment opportunities.
Investigations have highlighted that some scams are orchestrated by organised groups such as Nigeria’s infamous “Yahoo Boys,” known for their elaborate digital fraud networks. A Le Monde report details how these groups employ social engineering and psychological manipulation to exploit vulnerable individuals.
The “Yahoo Boys” give victims the impression that they are talking to one person, but in fact, it is a group of them working rostered shifts to create the illusion that they are so in love with the victim that they are available 24/7.
Often, their victims are older men, and they create the impression that they are beautiful women interested in them. They hire models and sex workers for video calls, images, and in-person meet-ups who are also paid by the syndicate.
WHO IS MOST AT RISK OF?
Experts note that people seeking companionship online, particularly older people and widows, are among the most common victims. Many are targeted because of loneliness and a desire for genuine human connection, which scammers exploit by offering attention, affection, and emotional support.
In some cases, victims become isolated from friends and family as fraudsters encourage secrecy, making them even more vulnerable to manipulation. However, younger users are far from immune. Increasingly, fraudsters are exploiting platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and even LinkedIn to lure victims.
With younger people, scammers often use more modern hooks, such as fake investment opportunities, cryptocurrency schemes, or promises of luxury lifestyles. The emotional playbook may differ from older victims, but the end goal is the same: persuading individuals to hand over money or sensitive information. This just goes to show that multiple demographics can be affected by these scams.
HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM ROMANCE SCAMS
Cybersecurity specialists recommend:
- Never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
- Performing reverse image searches to check if profile photos are fake.
- Watch for red flags such as rushed declarations of love or requests for secrecy.
HAVE YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW BEEN TARGETED BY A ROMANCE SCAM?
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